polyamandhellaglam:

For bisexual and pansexual polyamorous people, realizing they are polyam can be an especially painful process as it can feel as though you are living up to a stereotype or that you are giving bisexuals and pansexuals a bad reputations. However, those who think that being polyamorous is a bad thing and therefore something that bis and pans should be ashamed of having within their community aren’t good people. They’re means and selfish and prioritize their comfort over other people’s happiness. You don’t need to have those kinds of people approve of you. And as for bis and pans being angry at you for “giving them a bad name” anyone with sense knows that polyam people aren’t where that stereotype comes from, it comes from homophobes trying to devalue to importance of bisexual and pansexual people’s love lives. Pan and bi people who will be angry with you would have been angry with you for being any type of polyamorous person simply because they are intolerant. 

Nobody who would hate you is worth getting love from.