rapunzalis:

problematicfeminist:

I can’t ask a client if her husband rapes her because she’ll say no. 

Instead I ask her if he has ever forced her to have sex or she ever feels like she can’t say no. 

And she’ll say: 

“Well sometimes he…”

That’s how fucking normalized marital rape is in this culture. 

This reminds me of that study that asked college men if they would force a woman to have sex  and 1 out of 3 responded that they would. When the word “rape” was used however, the number dropped significantly.